There’s a persistent myth about celebrity life that goes something like this: fame buys you an army of handlers, nannies, publicists, and assistants who swoop in to manage the chaos while you sip lattes and look effortlessly put-together. Brooke Hogan just blew that narrative wide open.
On Saturday, June 6, the 38-year-old got real with her followers in a lengthy Instagram video, pushing back against the assumption that she’s got some well-oiled machinery running her life behind the scenes. The reality? She’s winging it like everyone else—just with a slightly larger audience watching the process.
Hogan explained that her actual support system is lean. There’s her husband, Steven Oleksy, a nanny who helps because they have twins and physical demands that make tag-team parenting necessary, and a record label team—specifically a man and his son—who’ve been a crucial support system for her professional work. But a publicist? A village of handlers? What team? Not in this house. The couple is genuinely doing the heavy lifting themselves, managing everything from passwords and paperwork to childcare and career decisions without the kind of infrastructure people tend to imagine surrounds someone with her profile.
What’s particularly striking is her broader point about modern life. Brooke didn’t frame her lack of a traditional celebrity support system as unique hardship; instead, she connected it to a systemic reality most families face today. Dual-income households aren’t a choice for the wealthy alone—they’re a necessity for most people. Families scatter for work opportunities. Extended family networks, once the default village that raised children, have fractured under economic pressure and geographic mobility. Even when loved ones are nearby, they’re drowning in their own demands. The infrastructure that once came built-in simply doesn’t exist anymore, celebrity or not.
She was candid about the toll, too. Running on empty. Unable to keep everyone happy. Refusing to peddle products she doesn’t believe in or perform a version of authenticity on social media that feels hollow. These aren’t complaints from someone living a charmed life—they’re observations from someone actually living it, in real time, with real exhaustion. And maybe that’s the most important part of what Brooke shared: the admission that loving your life, your spouse, and your kids doesn’t automatically inoculate you against feeling overwhelmed by the sheer volume of demands placed on modern parents, working or not. The world expects a lot of us now. And the village that’s supposed to catch us? It’s mostly an illusion.
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