A woman on TikTok went viral after sharing the details of a first date so uncomfortable she left before finishing dinner. She’d matched with the man on The League and agreed to meet up. During the meal, he pushed her to order wine even though he declined alcohol himself. He also described a past relationship as purely sexual and said physical attraction mattered most to him.
The moment that sealed it? When she asked what attracted him to her profile, he replied,“Obviously I’m not gonna have some 36-year-old sitting next to me,”and then brought up his Ferrari in the same conversation. She walked out. A hostess reportedly told her he brings dates to that restaurant regularly. TikTok commenters flooded the video with support, calling the drink pressure a red flag and offering advice for future dates.
The story’s struck a nerve for anyone who’s ever sat through a bad first date and wondered how quickly is too quickly to leave. What’s the biggest red flag you’ve spotted on a date and how did you handle it? We want to hear your stories.
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