Woman Says She Was Her Boyfriend's Sixth Mistress After Four Years Together: "I Didn't Apply for This Position"

A TikTok creator known as @thatcraftygingconnor says she spent almost four years with a man who was fully present for one of the biggest moments of her life. He came to doctor’s appointments during her pregnancy, was there when she gave birth in May, and even cut the umbilical cord, despite the baby not being biologically his. She says she asked him for more commitment in February 2025 and ended the relationship that August when nothing changed.

After the breakup, she says the truth started coming out. She learned he had been cheating with a 22-year-old coworker, something she discovered six months postpartum. Two weeks later, she says she found out he had a wife of 18 years, and that she was his sixth mistress. Her video racked up 482,200 views and 52,300 likes, and one line in particular has been making the rounds:“I didn’t apply for this position; I didn’t audition for that position; I did not submit a resume.”

The story is sparking conversations about trust, hidden double lives, and how someone can keep a marriage and multiple relationships going for years without slipping. It’s also raising a bigger question about how much we really know about the people we love, and whether there’s any way to spot the signs before it’s too late.

Have you ever found out you were the other person? Tell us your story in the comments.