Girlfriend Hires Loyalty Tester to DM Her Atlanta Realtor Boyfriend and His Reply Says Everything

A woman who had been dating an Atlanta real estate agent for two years wanted answers, so she reached out to Lily, the creator behind @lillyloyaltytests. Lily messaged the boyfriend posing as a marketing director relocating from Charlotte with a $2,200 monthly budget. He handled the questions like a professional, covering parking, walkability, and listings without a single misstep. Then the conversation shifted. Lily asked if he had a girlfriend, and he confirmed he did. When she asked whether he would get drinks with a client who was clearly flirting, he replied,“Let’s see how the showing goes first,”adding,“Just keeping my options open.”

The girlfriend’s reaction was blunt: after two years, she said she deserves better. Lily posted the exchange and described the results as complicated, which tracks, because no part of this is clean. He never explicitly agreed to anything, but the phrase“keeping my options open”landed like a verdict for plenty of viewers. National data on infidelity shows roughly 20% of married men and 13% of married women report stepping outside their relationship, which may explain why this clip spread so fast.

Loyalty tests are one of the biggest trends on social media right now, and they raise real questions about trust, privacy, and whether secretly testing a partner ever actually helps. Some people say the test itself is the red flag. Others say the answer is the red flag. Either way, this couple has a conversation ahead of them, and the internet already picked sides.

So we have to ask: would you ever hire a loyalty tester, or would finding out your partner did be the end for you? Drop your take in the comments.