Sometimes a comment comes out of nowhere and leaves everyone scratching their heads—and that’s exactly what happened when Selling Sunset alum Chrishell Stause, 44, took aim at American Idol’s Katharine McPhee in a TikTok thread that caught the internet off guard.
The drama kicked off when TikTok user Jordy Cray posted a video earlier this month breaking down what they called“one of the mcmessiest ones out there”about McPhee’s career and relationship history. But rather than let it slide, Stause jumped into the comments with surprisingly pointed words:“One day she will find her real inner confidence but it won’t come until after she is disgarded [sic] enough times by the problematic men she backs. An insecure woman will steal your man, and give the worst advice.”
The thing is, McPhee seemed genuinely confused about the whole thing. When asked about the comment on May 21, the 42-year-old singer told E! News,“Honestly I have no idea. I am just as confused about this controversy as you Imao.”So what was Stause actually mad about? According to Cray, it all boiled down to McPhee endorsing Spencer Pratt for Los Angeles Mayor—something that’s consistent with McPhee’s history of supporting Republican Party candidates and drawing public backlash for it.
But here’s where it gets interesting: the real fuel for Stause’s fire might’ve had nothing to do with politics at all. Other observers speculated that Stause was reacting to Cray’s focus on McPhee’s relationship timeline, which stretches back to her American Idol days in 2006. McPhee married Nick Cokas in 2008, but they separated in 2013 (when she was photographed kissing Smash director Michael Morris) and divorced in 2016. She then moved on with longtime friend David Foster in 2017, got engaged the following year, and married him in June 2019. The couple shares a son born in February 2021 and has navigated considerable public commentary about their 35-year age gap ever since.
When critics weighed in on her relationship back in 2018, McPhee fired back with a sharp reality check via X:“Y’all should be worrying more about registering to vote and midterms elections than who’s marrying me. Thank you for coming to my TED talk.”Six years later, she told People that she and Foster, 76, don’t even think about their ages.“We’re kind of both cut from the same cloth,”she said.“We sort of just accept life as it comes, and we’re not fighting getting older, because it just keeps getting better.”
So here’s the real question: was Stause calling out McPhee’s politics, her past relationships, or something else entirely? The mystery is part of what makes this so messy—and why the internet can’t seem to let it go.
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