The ongoing custody dispute between“The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives”star Taylor Frankie Paul and Dakota Mortensen just escalated into the public eye again—this time through a video that captures an emotionally charged moment between the former couple, posted by Dakota’s roommate Cru on July 9, 2026.
In the footage, Taylor appears visibly upset as Dakota films the interaction. She repeatedly questions why he’s recording her, asking“Why are you doing this?”and“Why are you filming me?”while standing in what appears to be a tense domestic moment. Dakota responds by saying“Now you can get caught,”referencing what he claims were previous instances of physical assault. He makes these allegations while holding one of their children in his arms—a detail that underscores the high stakes and emotional weight of the situation.
Cru’s accompanying post attempts to defend Dakota’s position, arguing that viewers are missing crucial context about what allegedly happened before the recording began. He suggests that Taylor’s body language shows frustration specifically because she’s being filmed and“can’t hit him,”urging followers to“watch her hands every time she realizes she’s being recorded.”Cru also called out Taylor directly in his caption, referencing a cease and desist she allegedly sent him and criticizing the behavior“in front of the kids”as potentially traumatic.
However, sources close to Taylor paint a starkly different picture. They characterize the video as showing Dakota berating his postpartum girlfriend, repeatedly escalating the situation despite her pleas for him to stop. These sources also criticized the decision to post such footage publicly, noting that the children may eventually discover these videos online—raising broader questions about using intimate conflict as social media fodder during an active custody battle.
This isn’t new territory for the couple. Earlier this week, they appeared in court for their ongoing custody dispute. In 2023, a video obtained by authorities showed Taylor repeatedly attacking Dakota; she subsequently pled guilty in abeyance to aggravated assault. That history complicates any single moment captured on video, because both parties have documented allegations against them. Yet the pattern of recording and posting these conflicts raises a deeper concern that extends beyond who said what: the children caught in the middle are watching their parents’disputes play out in real time, and so is the entire internet. Neither a custody hearing nor a viral video clip can resolve what appears to be a deeply fractured relationship with real consequences for the family involved.
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